BDSM Etiquette

We ask that you respect play space. Make sure you do not get too close and be aware of the back swings of floggers and whips. Use a safe word or gesture when playing, especially when you are not totally familiar with your play partner. RED is widely recognised as a common safe word meaning STOP! The equipment is here for your enjoyment and used at your own risk, we ask that you satisfy yourself that equipment is safe and clean to use before starting to play and remember to clean it again after use, if you find it unsafe please let the organiser/dungeon monitor know as soon as possible and it will be taken out of use.

Play is encouraged, but be aware that you use all equipment at your own risk and neither the venue organiser or suppliers of the equipment accept any liability for any loss or injury. Do not sit on the equipment or use it as a table for food or drink as it prevents genuine players from using it.

Please do not touch other people, their equipment, clothes, toys or their subs without permission. If you want to borrow something, please be respectful and ask and return it cleaned afterwards.

Please do not join a scene in session without the explicit permission of all concerned. It is bad manners to crowd them or try to push in. If they want your involvement, you will be invited. If you would like to watch a scene in progress do so at a respectful distance and keep conversation between spectators to a minimum and at as lower volume as possible, respect the after-care between sub and Dom/me and leave them undisturbed until finished.

No photography, cameras or recording devices, including mobiles with cameras are permitted to be used at any party; if there is an official event photographer then you should ask them to take any photographs you would like, all photographs will be sent via email after review by the venue owner and no copies will be kept unless gifted to the venue by the model in the picture. The venue can be hired privately for photographs to be taken.

Remember not to discuss play at the party or the people included in any scene either before or after with anyone not attending, a simple but overlooked respect of privacy which can cause distress when overlooked.

Please respect the right to privacy of the other guests at the party/event, failure to do so will incur a suspension of permission to attend the Annex.

No illegal substances of any kind are allowed, no illegal activities are allowed.

Failure to adhere to these rules result in being asked to leave the premises and may incur a lifetime ban.

Sub notes (excuse the pun). Store your bags/equipment thoughtfully and do not block walkways to avoid injury to others.